Absolute Surrender & Mini Surrender

Absolute Surrender and Mini Surrender are a playful introduction into light BDSM . Carefully curated to allow you to safely explore fetish, fantasy and taboo.  Experience sensory play and deep surrender of mind, body, spirit…

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Absolute surrender
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Mini Surrender

Have you ever been spanked and secretly enjoyed it? Or had a fantasy of being dominated, but have always had to be the one holding the reins? 
Let me help you to explore your edges with my Absolute Surrender & Mini Surrender sessions...

Absolute Surrender and Mini Surrender are an introduction into light BDSM. Designed for my kinkier clients…to open up all your energy centres and allow self love and consciousness to flow through you, enabling you to find the authentic you, while receiving a yummy muscle melting sensational massage.

Along the way you will discover how to accept responsibility for your own erotic power and pleasure. What you ask for, how you receive it and how much you allow, and what you do with these new skills is completely up to you.

In this sacred safe space you are able to surrender, be vulnerable, explore fantasy and fetish and be witnessed with open hearted conscious presence and non-judgement.

Together we will focus on charging the entire body with sexual energy.  A combination of Hawaiian, Hot Stone and Erotic Massage, as well as various sensory tools and props will be utilized during different stages of your session to create sensations of varying intensities from pleasure to pain (resilient edge of resistance).

So yes, during this session you can expect to be blindfolded, tied up, whipped, flogged, tickled, spanked, sensually awakened and certainly pleasured until you reach the states of deep surrender.

It would be my utmost pleasure to be the facilitator of your erotic pleasure journey into the authentic you.

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"The Absolute Surrender Session is a co creative role play in where you create the scene you wish for yourself. I comply by putting as many of your fantasies and fetishes together for you in a safe space... or I could just tie you up and call in the hounds..."

Pauline Cannon - Tantric Guide/Sacred Intimate - Nurturing Massage


The Sessions:
Absolute Surrender
&
Mini Surrender ...

Have you ever wanted to delve into the darker arts of BDSM, but been too ashamed or afraid?
I encourage you to explore Absolute Surrender & Mini Surrender...

 MINI SURRENDER
90 min or 120 min session
Includes: 
 Full Body Awakening Massage with all the  elements of domination and sensation building including impact play of flogging, whipping, caning, temperature play, sight deprivation, prostate massage, cbt 

 

 ABSOLUTE SURRENDER

120 min or 180 min session

A carefully curated “Role Play” session, created specifically for you.

Absolute Surrender is a deeply transcendent session that is created specifically to cater to your fetish and fantasy, with Mistress domination.  Due to the deep nature of the experience it is not available to clients that I have not worked with before.  

WARNING

  Altered states of consciousness may be reached during Absolute Surrender.  The recipient will need to allow time to integrate/ground themselves before driving back to their destination.

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Choose between Absolute Surrender or Mini Surrender

Mini Surrender

From $300 90 minutes

A powerful sensation building full body kinky massage. This session was created as a taster  to the Absolute Surrender session. During this session you may experience your reaction to whips, floggers, spanking, caning, temperature play and other techniques of arousal. Have fun exploring and getting to know those parts of you that may have been hidden or not allowed out to play. Here you are safe to dip your toes in or just express yourself…learn about your own erotic archetypes, how they perform a role in your sexuality, your lovemaking and your life. This transformative journey is all about discovery and freedom!

Description

A powerful sensation building full body kinky massage. This session was created as a taster  to the Absolute Surrender session. During this session you may experience your reaction to whips, floggers, spanking, caning, temperature play and other techniques of arousal. Have fun exploring and getting to know those parts of you that may have been hidden or not allowed out to play. Here you are safe to dip your toes in or just express yourself…learn about your own erotic archetypes, how they perform a role in your sexuality, your lovemaking and your life. This transformative journey is all about discovery and freedom!

Absolute Surrender 180 minute

$600.00 3 hours

A fully customized BDSM session to explore your edges, includes elements of fetish, fantasy & role play, bondage, discipline, sensation building and impact play.

Please book in for a phone chat when booking this session online.

Description

Dive deep into our role play session, Absolute Surrender. During your one hundred and eighty minutes experience total sensation overload, using impact play, sensation, bondage, and discipline.

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Sometimes the touch that you get at home just doesn't cut the mustard...

release tension body

Learn how to release tension in the body, by receiving a mindblowing range of sensation play, from impact to heat, to genital arousal and urban tantra experience... and those endorphins that come...

to relax and have a bloody good massage

In my opinion, there is nothing better than receiving a sensory massage where everything is focused on your arousal and pleasure...

a safe space to stretch your boundaries

Are you bored with your current lifestyle, you know that there is more to life than being a vanilla bean...what else could possibly be out there, but you are also aware that you need to explore in safety, with a professional who knows her stuff and can sense your limits...

to improve communication

Communication is a super important key ingredient in having truly loving, honest and authentic relationships, yet we are so afraid to speak our truth to the ones that we love. The energy shifts that happen during our sessions and retreats encourages you to find your voice again

to reconnect with your innerself

It's not hard to lose touch with your own needs when you work hard, have a family and normal stresses of life. This session is a beautiful way to disconnect from life and reconnect with your senses.

to release control

Give away the remote control for a moment, and drop into sensation and another world of wonder.

a saner way than ending the relationship

Before taking the plunge and calling it quits on your relationship, check in first with one of our sessions or retreats and learn the art of conscious communication. You may just find a way here, to stay happy and thriving

A testimonial... My experience of Absolute Surrender - with Pauline

Hi Pauline, I love you from the depths of my soul, for what you showed me….

I thought I would send you a little letter to thank you for the beautiful Absolute Surrender experience we shared a few weeks ago, 

My first contact with you was from a safe distance, (my computer) where I was able to ask questions and then answer your own intimate ones, that would give you some background history on me.

I must admit even the little questions you asked started getting me intrigued, just anticipating what was to come next, your words and instructions were intellectual erotic foreplay, and you hadn’t even touched me yet. It was clear to me that you were very much focused on creating the best Absolute Surrender experience for me.

No generic massage treatment here.

I arrived on time, on a thundery rainy day. You greeted me at the door with a smile and some kind words, I cannot remember, I was that nervous. You led me to the massage room where you instructed me to undress in front of you, while you went through the questionnaire once more, face to face this time, making sure that there were no miscommunications. 

We decided on a safe word to use, if I felt it necessary, although you assured me that, you were not into giving pain but rather pleasure…

even though you said that you would definitely be pushing me to the edge, I would be able to rest assured that I would always be safe. Somehow I felt myself trusting you. So with that, you blindfolded me, cuffed me and then gently led me out of the room and into another.

Immediately I felt the atmosphere was different, here in this room, it felt like a ritual was about to take place. The energy was charged, I could feel my adrenaline pumping. The room was warm, the carpet soft under my bare feet, I could hear soft music playing and smell essential oils in the air.
I sneaked a peak from under my blindfold and saw flickering candles,soft plush cushions, and a large soft mattress on the floor.

I could feel myself getting aroused, this was really happening. I was looking forward to a total sensory experience….

I really needed this. I had been single for three years since my wife left me for another. My ego was bruised, I hadn’t been touched in a while. I knew that I needed to get back out there and start meeting people again, but I had lost the confidence, this is why I had contacted you. (A good friend had suggested I go see Pauline for her Healing Touch)

So here I was standing in Pauline’s Play pit as she called it, awaiting further instructions.

Now I am not going to give any more of the Absolute Surrender secrets away, as I think Pauline takes a lot of time in preparing and making her sessions unique for each client, from the music she plays to the clothes she wears. Pauline also likes to keep an element of mystery and anticipation, so if I described my whole experience word for word, it would rip off the next lucky person to have the opportunity. Just know this, if I could, I would certainly make this a regular occurrence,

Pauline’s nurturing touch was sensual, magical, erotic and playful all at the same time… yes she did push me to the edge, a few times, but I never felt unsafe…I just wanted the experience to last.

Pauline’s beautiful session is “Sacred” as promised. Pauline met me on every level, with love and attention. We had a lot of fun, I was able to explore so many aspects of myself I never knew I had within me and that had been lying dormant for a long time. It was one of the best experiences I have ever invested in, I reached that orgasmic ecstatic bliss that most people only ever dream about, as well as a divine reconnection between myself and my sacred sensual self.

Thank you beautiful.

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Benefits of experiencing
Absolute Surrender
& Mini Surrender

What You Can Expect Every Time...

Duty of Care

It is my intention to keep you safe during your session, my safety and hygiene protocols are of the highest standard

confidentiality

Everything that you share with me is sacred and is held in the strictist confidence

learn

Learn new ways to connect through breathwork, sound, movement and mindful touch

custom created

Each session is custom created to your specific needs

Respect

Everyone deserves to be treated as an equal with respect and non judgement

Peace

Your body will feel more balanced and grounded. Experience deep peace and relaxation in our private studio

An Absolute Surrender Review

Pauline takes a lot of time in preparing and making her sessions unique for each client, from the music she plays to the clothes she wears. Pauline also likes to keep an element of mystery and anticipation, so if I described my whole experience word for word, it would rip off the next lucky person to have the opportunity. Just know this, if I could, I would certainly make this a regular occurrence, Pauline’s nurturing touch was sensual, magical, erotic and playful all at the same time... yes she did push me to the edge, a few times, but I never felt unsafe...I just wanted the experience to last.
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FAQ

It is quite normal to feel vulnerable when receiving any kind of massage therapy. As a practitioner, I am acutely aware of the need to make my clients feel comfortable. I pride myself on having an easy going, non-judgmental manner that hopefully, puts people at ease quite quickly.  I am sure you will love the experience of freedom that bodywork brings about.

This will depend on the session chosen. Therapeutic and Sacred sessions are full clothed.  Certain full body massage/loving touch/mini-surrender or the  longer tantric sessions that require two way touch or skin on skin contact for deeper intimacy may require a naturist approach. However the options will be discussed with you before the session begins.

Full Service (sexual intercourse) is not a service that is included in our practice.  However we do believe that you may have a most enjoyable, liberating and fun time receiving the session that is created for you.

Mindful touch and total presence is encouraged during any full body massage/loving touch/mini-surrender or tantric session. However each person involved in the session (both client/s and therapist/s) will be encouraged to speak consciously about their personal needs/boundaries/fears/desires prior to the session commencing.

Hugs are great.  However, we understand that some people may have boundaries around touch.  So permission is always asked rather than assuming that a person would enjoy a hug.

Yoni is a sanskrit word for Vulva/Vagina/Pussy – according to tantric philosophy the Yoni is the source of all that exists and represent Shakti and Devi, the creative force that moves throughout the entire universe.

Lingam is a sanskrit word for Penis – loosely translated as the Wand of Light that channels creative energy and pleasure.

Full Body Massage also known as Loving Touch or Sacred Sensual Massage.  This is a sensual awakening session, in which the client is nude, and the entire body is massaged, including in men the penis and prostate and in women, the yoni and breasts. It is a complete massage with every body part included unless specifically requested otherwise.

A Stress Management Massage is a therapeutic bodywork experience that includes the whole body minus the genitals.  It does however include breasts and buttocks, as well as reflexology to face, feet and hands and unwinding of the belly.

The Mini-Surrender session is a shorter, entry level sensation building session that allows the client to dip their toes into BDSM whereas the Absolute Surrender Session is a deeper dive that includes role play and significant fetish and fantasy implementation.

No, Kissing is fluid exchange, and a high risk behaviour that could  spread STD’s. Therefore it is not encouraged. Unless of course you are attending a Couples Intimacy Session, then kissing is encouraged between people that share a fluid bond. 

If you are feeling like it is time to start feeling great again and reconnect with yourself, boost your self confidence as well as your immune system, de-stress and receive some beautiful loving bodywork, I encourage you to call me to book some time to nurture yourself, so that you too may start enjoying your life with bliss, love & anticipation. 

 

My Passion

Is to listen, support, guide, nurture and inspire men, women and couples to experience juicy optimal wellbeing through consciously created bodywork sessions, intimacy retreats and talk therapy
The Process To Get Started...

1. Get In Touch

Let's have a chat so we can discuss your needs and create a plan

2. Choose a Date

Let's synchronize our calendars, day/evening/weekend

3. Payment in Advance

Secure your booking with a deposit via Direct Debit, PayPal or Stripe

4. Turn Up & Enjoy

The excitement will be building...I look forward to meeting you soon

Connect With Me

Address: 327 Ngutumanga Road
RD3 Te Aroha - New Zealand

Mobile: +6421 025 12226
landline: 07 884-7014

Email: pauline@nurturingmassage.co.nz

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See you soon, Pauline xx

Please know... Everything you share with me is kept strictly confidential.