Lingam Massage

A guided exploratory journey into pleasure, sensation and conversation. Lingam Massage is a deeply nurturing experience  for  men that desire more presence and a deeper level of intimate connection with Mind, Body & Spirit while also receiving a sensational full body massage.

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Lingam Massage

Lingam Massage, was created specifically for men that experience a real lack of intimacy, connection or touch in their relationships...

Welcome to my soft spot! 

If I have to be honest, I fell onto the path of the Sacred Intimate not just because I just love men, but because it felt pure and right.  I love helping men connect with their bodies. My devotional Lingam Massage, guides men to connect with their partners from a deeper heart space, which in turn encourages them to be more present, more passionate and more purposeful human beings. 

We girl’s need more conscious men to guide us, make love to us and make life fun! The Lingam Massage is a way for you to get to know how we work too…Once you get to know our quirks, you will become more confident and able to speak our  language and develop your natural intuition around all things feminine… 

I know that sometimes women can be little “time bombs”, especially when we feel that we are not heard,  validated or seen.  Trust me it is a full time job… Don’t worry though because I have also made it my mission to teach women how to adore men, touch them and see them in all their beauty and vulnerability too…but first there is some repair work to be done so let’s begin.


The Session...

Lingam Massage is an intimacy session like no other...

  •  Available to men only.
  • Also known as Lingam Healing
  • Session duration:  150 minutes
  • Includes massage of the prostate (optional), lingam
  • Elements of Tantra, Erotic and Sensual massage included
  • A customized aromatherapy blend to balance body, mind, spirit
  • Includes Unwinding of the Belly, as well as reflexology to feet,  face and hands.
  • Includes Hot Stones and marmani release
  • Includes a pre session chat (allow an extra 30 to 40 minutes)
  • Talk Therapy – intimacy/sexual archetypes/dysfunctions
  • Guided Breathwork to encourage relaxation and life force circulation.
  • Manifesting of Goals and Desires
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book your lingam massage

Lingam Massage

$460.00 2 hours 30 minutes

Specifically created for men who wish to dive into a deeper more intimate experience and get back on track with their lives. Especially beneficial for men who do not receive any touch at all, or for those that wish for a much longer, intense journey of discovery –  this longer massage session is also great for those men that need guidance around sexual dysfunction issues, or that find it difficult to receive touch, reach orgasm or who have had a traumatic experience which has led to numbness. These sessions may be a way to help you explore, expand and understand your reason for being.

Lingam Massage is for you if you need...

help with sexual dysfunction/feelings of inadequacy

Lingam massage can help with releasing feelings of inadequacy in the bedroom. Erectile Dysfunction, Peyronies Disease, Premature Ejaculation, failure to reach orgasm, all these problems are resolvable.

You are having relationship troubles

Lingam massage is a slower session where we can chat and you may get another perspective on how you can improve your relationship.

more touch, more intimate connection

Not your average massage session. We dive deeply into the ritualistic space of mindful and playful touch that the body, mind and spirit thrives on.

to improve your technique

Learn ways of connecting mindfully and from an open heart space. It is not just what you know but how you execute your delivery.

to relax and have a bloody good massage

This is one of the most popular sessions to receive when you need, deep nurturing, high quality touch, great therapeutic bodywork as well as the sensual intimacy and orgasmic release that the body, mind and soul craves.

to gain confidence

Client's have reported feeling so much more confident to go out and pleasure their partner or start new relationships, with their new skills.

to learn how to connect intimately with women

Yes please! More men are needed to love and honour women, speak their language and hold us safe.

a deeper spiritual connection

High Sex/Tantra and spirituality are a well known path to increase deeper connection with the Divine and your Soul's desires. Lingam Massage guides you on that higher path to spiritual connection.

to improve communication with your partner

Communication is a super important key ingredient in having a truly loving, honest and great relationship, yet we are so afraid to speak our truth to the ones that we love. A Lingam Massage encourages an open hearted conversation between lovers.

to learn how to last longer

Learn how to truly release the egocentric mind and drop deeper into the heart space where touch is an art form.

nurturing on a deeper level

Lingam Massage takes you on an exploratory journey into deeply nurturing bodywork, drawing on the holistic modalities of tantric breathwork, unwinding of the belly, hot stones and aromatherapy. Will ensure that you are truly nurtured in all possible ways.

How people treat you is their karma, how you react is yours...

Dr Wayne w. Dyer

What's involved in a Lingam Massage?

Firstly, we start with a good chat about what has been happening in your world. What led you to come see me. We discuss any lifestyle or relationship issues or traumas that you are currently experiencing. We also talk about any personal or relationship goals you need help with and whether you have any boundaries relating to touch. I allow approximately 30 – 45 minutes for this. Then while you get ready, I create an aromatherapy remedy to be used in your treatment, so as to gently encourage a deeper surrender of the mind, body and spirit. 

Once you are settled on the comfortable massage bed, the Lingam massage can begin with the warmed oil being lovingly massaged into your muscles, and all over your body. Special attention will be paid to areas that are holding tension, as well as erogenous zones, the belly, buttocks and prostate in men.

During this session you will be guided step by step to breathe and release any energetic stresses in your body. The Lingam massage is a deeper intimate connective session, which encourages some two way touch, sound, movement and breathwork to enable deeper connection and body sensation. It is a full body awakening experience where feelings of peace and surrender can be expected to last for a considerable time.

What You Can Expect Every Time...

Duty of Care

It is my intention to keep you safe during your session, my safety and hygiene protocols are of the highest standard


Everything that you share with me is sacred and is held in the strictist confidence


Learn new ways to connect through breathwork, sound, movement and mindful touch

custom created

Each session is custom created to your specific needs


Everyone deserves to be treated as an equal with respect and non judgement


Your body will feel more balanced and grounded. Experience deep peace and relaxation in our private studio

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  • Special (secret) offer for all new members
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  • Future discounts, tantric intimacy tips & invites to events

Love Letters From My Clients...

On the way home I found myself spontaneously saying wow, every few minutes, out it would pop again, WOW!! Having just turned fifty I found myself wondering if there wasn't more to sex and intimacy than what we've traditionally been led to believe. Summoning all my courage, I booked in for a Sensual Massage. I needn't have worried, Pauline welcomed me and immediately made me feel at ease, explaining what was to happen and agreeing the boundaries. The massage itself gave rise to the most wonderful and intense feelings I have ever experienced in my life. I felt as though the skin over my whole body was fizzing. I will be forever indebted to Pauline for opening my eyes and sharing such an amazing, indeed deeply spiritual experience with me. I hope to see you again soon!
Ian - Auckland
Full Body massage
My first session with Pauline - I recently had the the pleasure of receiving a Lingam Massage by Pauline a few days ago, and in all honesty it was the most incredible massage I have ever experienced. Initial contact was made with Pauline as I want to increase my knowledge of Tantra. Reading up on it is just not the same as having an experienced Tantric practitioner like Pauline to assist in my journey. I arrived at our pre arranged time and immediately felt at ease with Pauline, she is so down to earth and you know within a few minutes that you are in good hands. We discussed how the session would go and now it was time to experience first hand what hopefully is the beginning of an enjoyable tantric journey.
Chaz - Bay of Plenty
Lingam Massage

It is quite normal to feel vulnerable when receiving any kind of massage therapy. As a practitioner, I am acutely aware of the need to make my clients feel comfortable. I pride myself on having an easy going, non-judgmental manner that hopefully, puts people at ease quite quickly.  I am sure you will love the experience of freedom that bodywork brings about.

This will depend on the session chosen. Therapeutic and Sacred sessions are full clothed.  Certain full body massage/loving touch/mini-surrender or the  longer tantric sessions that require two way touch or skin on skin contact for deeper intimacy may require a naturist approach. However the options will be discussed with you before the session begins.

Full Service (sexual intercourse) is not a service that is included in our practice.  However we do believe that you may have a most enjoyable, liberating and fun time receiving the session that is created for you.

Mindful touch and total presence is encouraged during any full body massage/loving touch/mini-surrender or tantric session. However each person involved in the session (both client/s and therapist/s) will be encouraged to speak consciously about their personal needs/boundaries/fears/desires prior to the session commencing.

Hugs are great.  However, we understand that some people may have boundaries around touch.  So permission is always asked rather than assuming that a person would enjoy a hug.

Yoni is a sanskrit word for Vulva/Vagina/Pussy – according to tantric philosophy the Yoni is the source of all that exists and represent Shakti and Devi, the creative force that moves throughout the entire universe.

Lingam is a sanskrit word for Penis – loosely translated as the Wand of Light that channels creative energy and pleasure.

Full Body Massage also known as Loving Touch or Sacred Sensual Massage.  This is a sensual awakening session, in which the client is nude, and the entire body is massaged, including in men the penis and prostate and in women, the yoni and breasts. It is a complete massage with every body part included unless specifically requested otherwise.

A Stress Management Massage is a therapeutic bodywork experience that includes the whole body minus the genitals.  It does however include breasts and buttocks, as well as reflexology to face, feet and hands and unwinding of the belly.

The Mini-Surrender session is a shorter, entry level sensation building session that allows the client to dip their toes into BDSM whereas the Absolute Surrender Session is a deeper dive that includes role play and significant fetish and fantasy implementation.

No, Kissing is fluid exchange, and a high risk behaviour that could  spread STD’s. Therefore it is not encouraged. Unless of course you are attending a Couples Intimacy Session, then kissing is encouraged between people that share a fluid bond. 

If you are feeling like it is time to start feeling great again and reconnect with yourself, boost your self confidence as well as your immune system, de-stress and receive some beautiful loving bodywork, I encourage you to call me to book some time to nurture yourself, so that you too may start enjoying your life with bliss, love & anticipation. 


My Passion

Is to listen, support, guide, nurture and inspire men, women and couples to experience juicy optimal wellbeing through consciously created bodywork sessions, intimacy retreats and talk therapy
The Process To Get Started...

1. Get In Touch

Let's have a chat so we can discuss your needs and create a plan

2. Choose a Date

Let's synchronize our calendars, day/evening/weekend

3. Payment in Advance

Secure your booking with a deposit via Direct Debit, PayPal or Stripe

4. Turn Up & Enjoy

The excitement will be building...I look forward to meeting you soon

Connect With Me

Address: 327 Ngutumanga Road
RD3 Te Aroha - New Zealand

Mobile: +6421 025 12226
landline: 07 884-7014



See you soon, Pauline xx

Please know... Everything you share with me is kept strictly confidential.

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